Post by nina on Oct 30, 2012 20:19:17 GMT -5
So there comes a time when everybody does the dirty deed, and I need advice, but not for me it's for my best friend Missy who is with this guy named Anthony.
Background on Anthony: He is 20 years old and was into drugs to the point that he goes to meetings like alcoholics would go to (Kirsty knows this place very well =P loll) once every week at midnight. It was that bad and he would tell Missy, because he talks A LOT, about how he would wake up at a party not knowing what happened. She's nervous to sleep with him because of his drug abuse (She doesn't know if he shared needles) and his past one night stands. Which basically means she doesn't want to get anything on her first time.
Advice: She doesn't know how to tell him no, well she can but...let me explain things escalated last week but she was on her period so that was her excuse and today I made her the promise of texting her every thirty minutes and to call her if she doesn't answer in ten minutes loll. We have today all planned out but sooner or later she will have to talk to him about it and she doesn't know how to do it without sounding like a bitch. So what can she say to hold him off? And how can she tell him everything above with out sounding mean and hurtful? She really does like this guy but she feels like she doesn't know him.
If you all know what I was trying to ask thank god because even I was getting confused.
Background on Anthony: He is 20 years old and was into drugs to the point that he goes to meetings like alcoholics would go to (Kirsty knows this place very well =P loll) once every week at midnight. It was that bad and he would tell Missy, because he talks A LOT, about how he would wake up at a party not knowing what happened. She's nervous to sleep with him because of his drug abuse (She doesn't know if he shared needles) and his past one night stands. Which basically means she doesn't want to get anything on her first time.
Advice: She doesn't know how to tell him no, well she can but...let me explain things escalated last week but she was on her period so that was her excuse and today I made her the promise of texting her every thirty minutes and to call her if she doesn't answer in ten minutes loll. We have today all planned out but sooner or later she will have to talk to him about it and she doesn't know how to do it without sounding like a bitch. So what can she say to hold him off? And how can she tell him everything above with out sounding mean and hurtful? She really does like this guy but she feels like she doesn't know him.
If you all know what I was trying to ask thank god because even I was getting confused.